Meet Amanda

Starting again after a breakup can feel like being thrown into the deep end without a life jacket. Shame, Guilt, fear, loneliness, those emotions can hit like a tidal wave. I get it...trust me.

I had to start again at 44. My turning point came after my dad passed away just 7 weeks after his cancer diagnosis. That was my 'aha' moment. I knew I had to leave my 19yr marriage. Some might say it was down to grief, but I knew better.

I had mentally and emotionally left my marriage years before. There was always a quiet what if in the back of my mind, a thought that would pop up again and again. And as I've come to understand, those thoughts weren't just passing doubts, they were shaping my reality. My self concept, the beliefs I held about myself and what was possible for me, had been playing out in my life all along.

Losing my dad made me see things differently. Life is too short, too precious, and it can change in an instant. I knew I had to physically leave because I refused to continue living a life of what ifs!

I understand that starting again can feel scary and overwhelming, but here's how I see it, I'd rather reach the end of my life knowing I took the chances, learned from the mistakes, and created the life I truly wanted, rather than regretting that I only existed instead of living.

Now, I coach men and women just like you, helping them rebuild their confidence and change their self concept  so they create a life that actually feels good, with the overwhelm. And let me tell you, there's nothing better than watching that 'aha' moment in someone else's eyes when they realise the power was in them all along.