Meet Amanda
Starting Again Coach
Hi, I'm Amanda, a Starting Again Coach. I help people who are starting again after a marriage or long-term relationship change the thinking that keeps them stuck., so that they don't repeat the same old patterns.
I left my own 19yr marriage at 44, so I know what starting again actually feels like, the uncertainty, the loneliness, and the 'what now?' stage that nobody really prepares you for,
What I do isn't about quick fixes or just 'moving on.' It's about changing your self concept, the way you see yourself and the story you've been carrying, because that's what shapes what happens next.
Together, we look at where you're stuck, what patterns are still running, and how to change the thinking so you can move forward differently this time.
Starting again isn't about becoming someone new. It's about understanding yourself properly so you stop ending up in the wrong place.
How It All Started
Because I've been where you are.
Starting again after a marriage or long-term relationship can feel like being dropped into a life that you didn't plan for. The fear, uncertainty, the loneliness...I know it too well.
I left my own 19yr marriage at 44. The real turning point came after my dad passed away just 7 weeks after his cancer diagnosis. It made one thing painfully clear: life can change fast, and staying in a life that doesn't feel right just because it's familiar isn't the answer.
Truthfully, I had mentally and emotionally left years before. There was always that quiet 'what if?' in the background, and I've since realised those thoughts weren't random. They reflected what I believed about myself and what was possible for my life.
That's why I don't focus on 'moving on' or quick confidence boosts. I focus on the thinking underneath, your self concept, the patterns, and the story you've been carrying, because that's what shapes what happens next.
Now I help women and men who are starting again understand their patterns, change their thinking, and move forward differently this time.
Starting again isn't about becoming someone else. It's about finally understanding yourself properly so your next chapter isn't just a repeat of the last.
Ready for more...but still holding back?
Start by seeing what's actually keeping you stuck.
If you're not sure where to start, the free guide's below.
Work With Me.
Private Client Fit Call
Private Client Fit Call
Private Client Fit Call
A 30-minute session to explore whether private coaching is right for you. We'll discuss your patterns, old story, and see if we're a good fit to work together.
1:1 Support
Private Client Fit Call
Private Client Fit Call
I work 1:1 with people starting again after the end of a marriage or long-term relationship. Choose a 1hr private session (£60) for a focused look at your patterns, or a 4 week programme (£400) for deeper support. I will spot the patterns you're running and help you change the story you've been telling yourself, so that you stop repeatin
I work 1:1 with people starting again after the end of a marriage or long-term relationship. Choose a 1hr private session (£60) for a focused look at your patterns, or a 4 week programme (£400) for deeper support. I will spot the patterns you're running and help you change the story you've been telling yourself, so that you stop repeating the same old patterns moving forward.
After the 4 week programme, I check in twice a week via whatsapp to keep you on track and make sure you're moving forward consistently. Sessions can be via zoom or face-to-face, depending on location. DM me to book.
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Ready for More. But Still Holding Back (Free guide)
Start by seeing what's actually keeping you stuck.